Saturday, July 4, 2009
Happy Late 4th of July
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
The Horse and His Boy
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
The Nature of God
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
About Me

This is a picture of my husband and I in front of our old house before we sold it in September of 2007. Since then we have been overseas for 8 months in the Middle East and then traveling to and fro throughout the southern Midwest and Southeast, living out of suitcases and staying with gracious and wonderful friends and family, and finally we have settled down in Overland Park, Kansas, a pretty suburb of Kansas City.
I am originally from Georgia. My wonderful husband, Eric, is from New York and Iowa but lived in Oklahoma for 15 years. We have been very happily married since January 2005. You might ask how in the world we met. Quite simple! We met in the Middle East! Isn’t that the most sensible answer? Our first unofficial date was at a Starbucks on the beautiful Mediterranean Sea. We were married 7 months later! Here are a few interesting tidbits about me.
We now have a son named Wesley Joseph born February 16, 2010. He is the cutest thing ever! He is such an amazing gift. We waited 4 and 1/2 years for this precious treasure. He is a happy little guy that gives us such delight.
I love to read and write, two things I used to not be very good at and didn't do very much. I like to create things and I am a teacher at heart. I absolutely love history, so much so that I got a Masters Degree in it a couple of years ago. Traveling adventures and learning new languages bring me much delight! I adore my hubby! He is my perfect mate, so steady and calm, quite the opposite of me. And most of all, I love Jesus. It is my desire to know Him more and more and to bring others along with me, to not settle for ho-hum Christianity that has nothing real behind it except the right things to say and do. I want to live my life as did Jim Elliot (slain missionary to the Aucas in Ecuador), to not be satisfied with the "usual."
I dreamed as a young girl of traveling all over the world. God has been so gracious to lead me on some awesome adventures overseas to places like Belarus and Lebanon - even to live there for a while. I've also been to Mexico, St. Lucia, Syria, Jordan, Cyprus, Austria, Germany, London and Paris at least for a few hours up to a week or two and to at least half the states in the US. This is truly something the Lord has put in my heart given that no one on either side of my immediate or extended family has ever left the country except for maybe to Mexico.
Favorite Quotes
- You never know how much you really believe anything until its truth or falsehood becomes a matter of life and death to you. It is easy for you to believe a rope to be strong and sound as long as you are merely using it to cord a box. But suppose that you had to hang by that rope over a precipice. Wouldn't you then first discover how much you really trusted it? … Only a real risk tests the reality of a belief. –C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed
- He is no fool to give up what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. Jim Elliot
Favorite Books (Ones I read over and over)
- The Letter to the Philippians by The Apostle Paul
- Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
- Shadow of the Almighty by Elisabeth Elliot
- The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom
- The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S.Lewis
- A Voice in the Wind by Francine Rivers
- God's Smuggler by Brother Andrew
- John Adams by David McCullough
- Little House on the Prairie Series Laura Ingalls Wilder
- All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Maria Remarque
- Pride & Prejudice
- Amazing Grace
- Chariots of Fire
- The Lord of the Rings
- Narnia
- Sense & Sensibility
- Singing in the Rain
- The Parent Trap
- Anne of Green Gables
- Read History, Classical Education, Theology, the Bible, Biographies, children’s books
- Play with Wesley - I love his giggles!
- Write blogs, emails & children’s stories
- Play outside with plants
- Go on hikes or walks in the woods, in the mountains
- Sew, Crochet, Cross Stitch, make cards, paint,
- Peruse Book stores & libraries
- Chat with friends
- Talk about Jesus, discuss theology, missions and history!
- Find and cook new nourishing and frugal recipes.
Things I've Always Wanted to Do
- Have a large family
- Tap Dance
- Be a chef
- Go to Africa
- Run a children’s bookstore
- Start a classical school for underprivileged children
- Write children’s books
- Go on an archaeological dig
- Travel back to Jane Austen’s time give or take 100 years.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Blog Highlight: Personal Responsibility
Hi All,
Here is a blog written by our pastor in Norman, OK on the personal responsibility required for a government of democracy vs the entitlement that is now often demanded. I thought this would be a good follow up to the John Adams entry. Mr. Adams would whole-heartedly agree!
John Adams
I have just finished, finally, the biography of John Adams by David McCullough for which McCullough won a Pulitzer Prize. I highly recommend this book! After reading a couple of other books on the American Revolution, I became intrigued with John Adams and decided to read more about him. Born in 1735, a native and life-long resident of Braintree/Quincy, Massachusetts, just 5 miles from Boston, Adams was a master of words, was highly educated, a graduate of Harvard and a lawyer, a thinker, and a political philosopher. His ideas are woven throughout the Declaration of Independence and the United States Constitution. He collected books and read prolifically.
On the other hand, he loved farming, being outdoors, and enjoying nature on horse back or by walking from 5-10 miles a day, even 3 miles a day in his late 80’s. He had a great sense of humor but was prone to melancholy at times, although not surprisingly given the struggles in his life. He was highly opinionated and prided himself in his opinions, often quite stubbornly. And he dearly loved his wife, well documented by the thousands of letters that passed between them during their courtship and marriage.
In addition, he loved the Lord. He delighted in reading the Bible and worshiping on Sundays. He was mocked for his faith at times as President, especially when he called for a day of prayer and fasting with regard to the brewing unrest and uncertainty between France and the U.S. Adams was lauded all of his day for his consistent integrity and devotion to public and private virtue as pillars of democracy. He not only extoled the belief that all men are created equal and endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable rights, he lived it out. He abhorred slavery and longed to see its end. He was one of the few original founding fathers who did not own slaves. He hired men out to work his farms instead. He was also financially wise and careful. Though he never considered himself a rich man, he was worth over $100,000 at the time of his death in 1826, at the age of 91.
His many accomplishments include service as a delegate to the First and Second Continental Congress, nominated George Washington as Commander of the Continental Army, served on the Revolutionary War Board among many other boards, served as a diplomat to France and Holland during the war as well as minister (ambassador) to the Court of St. James, wrote the Massachusetts constitution (“the oldest functioning written constitution in the world” p. 225), the first Vice President of the United States for two terms under George Washington and the second President of the United States. As president, amidst great controversy and opposition from his own party and others, he managed to keep the country out of war with France. He is also advocated for decades the need to create a defense of “wooden walls,” a navy, and under his administration, the Department of the Navy was established.
However, he is most remembered for the part he played in our country’s independence. Thomas Jefferson should most definitely be remembered for his gifted contribution to Declaration of Independence, but don’t forget John Adams. Jefferson came into the circle of revolution and independence only months before that July of 1776; Adams had been speaking and writing about it passionately for years. He was fervently devoted to the Revolutionary Cause, independence, self-government and the republic and remained so until his death. It has been said that although Jefferson wrote the Declaration of Independence, Adams was the voice for independence in his lengthy speeches and in his writings long before and up to the drafting of the Declaration. He was part of the “Committee of Five” chosen to draft the document. After discussing what would be put in the document, Jefferson was chosen to actually write it, undoubtedly for his undeniable talents with the quill. However, you’ll notice in the painting by John Trumball that depicted the signing of the Declaration, Adams is in the center, and I think, rightly so.
Here are some of my favorite quotes from the book:
“There is nothing I dread so much as a division of the Republic into two great parties, each arranged under its leader and converting measures in opposition to each other...”The “turbulent maneuvers” of factions, he now wrote privately, could “tie the hands and destroy the influence” of every honest man with a desire to serve the public good. There was “division of sentiments over everything,” he told his son-in-law William Smith. “How few aim at the good of the whole, without aiming too much at the prosperity of the parts.” P 422.
So much had happened in John Adam’s life - he had done so much, taken such risks, given so much of himself heart and soul in the cause of his country - that he seems not to have viewed the presidency as an ultimate career objective or crowning life achievement. He was not one given to seeing life as a climb to the top of a ladder or mountain, but more as a journey or adventure, even a “kind of romance which a little embellished with fiction or exaggeration or only poetical ornament, would equal anything in the days of chivalry or knight errantry...” Pg. 476
About the French Revolution, Adams said, “Mankind will in time discover that unbridled majorities are as tyrannical and cruel as unlimited despots,” and he lamented that so much more blood would have to flow before the lesson was learned. P. 443-444
“There must be, however,” Adams responded, “more employment for the press in favor of the government than there has been, or the sour, angry, peevish, fretful, lying paragraphs which assail it on every side will make an impression on many weak and ignorant people.” P. 441
“Laws for the liberal education of youth, especially for the lower classes of people, are so extremely wise and useful that to a humane and generous mind, no expense for this purpose would be thought extravagant.” Pg. 103
In correspondence to James Otis Warren on independence, Adams wrote, “All great changes are irksome to the human mind, especially those which are attended with great dangers and uncertain effects. No man living can foresee the consequences of such a measure...We may please ourselves with the prospect of free and popular governments. But there is great danger that those governments will not make us happy. God grant that they may. But I fear that in every assembly, members will obtain an influence by noise not sense. By meanness, not greatness. By ignorance, not learning. By contracted hearts, not large souls... There is one thing, my dear sir, that must be attempted and most sacredly observed or we are all undone. There must be decency and respect, and veneration introduced for persons of authority of every rank, or we are undone. In a popular government, this is our only way. P. 104
In a letter to his granddaughter in his last days he wrote, “The longer I live, the more I read, the more patiently I think, and the more anxiously I inquire, the less I seem to know...Do justly. Love mercy. Walk humbly. (Micah 6:8) This is enough... “
A Cup of Hot Tea
I just finished listening on CD to “Blue Shoes and Happiness” by Alexander McCall Smith. It is the 7th book in the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency about the “traditionally built” Mme Precious Ramotse who, after the death of her dear father, has opened the only detective agency in Botswana, southern Africa. Though the books have a slow pace, they are so pleasant to read because they represent, through her life, family and friends, the culture of Botswana and the issues that the people of Africa deal with like drought, famine, poverty, AIDS, witch-craft, etc, but not in a heavy way, just as a context or background in African life. Mme Ramotse loves her country and always speaks praises for the country’s first president, Seretse Khama. Even though she has her ‘busy’ times (definitely not comparable to anything we would call busy here), there is always time for cake with friends, conversations filled with bits of old Botswana wisdom, people-watching (she is a detective after all), talking about cattle and pumpkin-eating. I don’t agree with all that is written about men. Men are rather degraded in the books - at least the bad men are, but in her view and the view of most of the women in the books, most men are bad (lazy, adulterous and/or abusive). However you may really be lucky and find a good man as did Mme Ramotse and Mme Makutsi, Mme Ramotse’s assistant,. The books give high praise for ‘good’ men. Anyway, sometimes these things make me laugh or just roll my eyes, but so much of these books are rich in other things.
In the last book, and more and more as I read each book, I am struck by, as I mentioned above, the simple, slow pace of life and the priority given to friends and family. At the beginning of the book she was sitting on her veranda on Zebra Drive “thoughtfully” drinking a cup of tea. In a conversation with the director of an orphanage they say one to another over large pieces of cake, “We are not born to work, work, work all the time. It is important to just be able to sit and think... It is quite unnatural to work like that. There should be time for work and play. And some time for sitting and watching the sun go up and down and some for listening to cattle bells in the bush.” Doesn’t that sound refreshing? I am definitely not opposed to putting in a good day of hard work whether it be at home or the office, as a volunteer or in a ministry, pouring our life out for Christ, but doesn’t listening to cattle bells sound appealing in some way? I realized that I fill my day from sun up to sun down with something to do almost every minute. When I eat breakfast, I’m reviewing scripture memory or listening to a sermon or reading the Bible. When I eat lunch I am looking at recipes for dinner or making a grocery list or reading the news. In the afternoons, I sometimes sit down for a cup of hot tea but again, I am still doing something. My mind and body never really rest until my head hits the pillow - oh, but there I also read. For weeks I was having the worst time ever sleeping and decided to try resting for a while in the afternoon along with a couple of other things to maybe help me sleep better. I read for a little while and then just laid there. It really worked to help calm my thoughts down and just rest my body. I recommend it to anyone! Maybe you have kids. I know plenty of families where everyone in the family has a quiet time in the afternoon, even if some of the kids are too old to take a nap. They read or color or listen to tapes or draw, etc. It seems to refresh everyone and everyone’s mood is much better. I cannot tell you the last time I “sat on my veranda” and drank my tea “thoughtfully,” not doing something and if I have, I feel guilty. I felt guilty to for laying down for a rest in the afternoons lately but not anymore. I have seen the benefits of it to my mind, emotions and body. Back to the cup of tea... I am challenging myself and I challenge you to try sitting down for just 10 minutes a day with your favorite beverage and drink it “thoughtfully” not doing anything else. NOTHING ELSE! Don’t listen to the radio. Don’t watch tv. Don’t read. Don’t work a puzzle. Don’t surf the net. Go outside and listen to the wind and birds or the cattle bells if you happen to live in a place where that is possible. I think you will be amazed how clear your thoughts will become and how refreshed you will feel. Or, why not have a cup of tea and cake with a friend, just because... just because.
If you’re interested in the Botswana, check out these sites:
http://www.botswanatourism.co.bw/index.html